2. Stop Asking Others for Favors. To become independent the first thing you need to do is start doing things for yourself. Whether it may be getting your license or finding a better job, it is time to start fending for yourself. As every woman knows the pain of rushing you can eliminate that stress by creating a list on how to complete these goals. Instead of wearing yourself down and trying to get everything done at once, give yourself to goals to complete each week to get you where you need to be. This will give you time and help you to avoid anxiety and pressure.
3. Treat Yourself for Once. Instead of always worrying about others, take the time to do something that makes you feel beautiful or happy. Some ideas to spoil yourself with are a new hair cut, a manicure, buying a new out or maybe even going on a girls night out while hiring a babysitter for the children. Whatever it is that brings out the shine in your eyes, take that extra step to make it happen.